![]() 01/13/2015 at 17:22 • Filed to: None | ![]() | ![]() |
Got engaged tonight to my girlfriend of seven years, feeling like a grown up now!
have some crazy cars.
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Congrats!
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Hey congrats!!! Prepare yourself for the wedding planning.
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Congratulations! Dang, 7 years though? You sure she's not the one that proposed to you? ;)
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Congratulations, good luck with that planning thing :)
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lol, It's never felt like the right time and we were young (still young at 23!) but today was our 7th anniversary so it felt right, wedding is a few years off still gotta save up first.
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Congrats!
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feeling like a grown up now!
YOU ARE NOW OLD. OLD OLD OLD.
/RamblinRover, playing the Voice O' Self Doubt
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thanks man still got a few years to save. I'm hoping she caves in to my demand of getting married at Goodwood House and having the reception at the track/
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I'm 23 man! am I old?
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One word: VEGAS.
Two more words: ELVIS PRESLEY.
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Actually, that makes me old, given that I'm 29 with no SO.
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vegas is a good 5000 miles away, it's tempting but the furthest I've been from home 4300 miles.
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to be fair I didn't work that hard to get the girl, we've known each other since we were babies. I'd be forever alone without her.
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Dude, congrats! I sat here for a good couple minutes trying to make a "Your princess is in another castle" reference before I realized I should just say congrats! Enjoy the...fun times!
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It's only 700 more miles.
Planning a wedding is seriously stressful. My advice to you: agree with your new bride on everything, do not speak unless spoken to, and do not, under any circumstance
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like this?
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Congratulations, and apologies for being unimaginative.
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Congrats! That is a big and exciting moment!
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Well, more a version where you finally got to the right castle, but that's pretty epic right there!
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Congrats! I know you guys want to savor the engagement for a bit before the wedding planning starts so as someone who is in the middle of wedding planning here is my 2 cents: if it's in the budget, hire a wedding planner as the very first thing you do. the more they can/will do for you, the better and easier it is.
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top tip!
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Just tryin' to help. It's what we do around here. But really, enjoy the engagement for a bit.
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Congrats man! Took me 7 years too.
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Congrats! Have an RS7 for 7 years
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My sincerest congratulations!
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Glad I'm not the only one to take my sweet ass time.
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I don't think I can get away with enjoying it for another 7 years though!
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Congrats! You grow up a lot on the day of huh? ;)
Good luck!
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SWEET BARKING CHEESE!
Congrats!
And if her daddy offers you a chunk of cash to elope vs a full blown wedding...take the cash. Way more useful than a book full of wedding pix....
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Hmm, that might be a bit long to her liking but you never know.
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don't apologise, you are like an omnipresent guardian angel on oppo/jalopnik, every 2-3 days you appear in my notifications and I'm grateful so I often give a star back. in this curious world of V6 ford supercars and doug not having a car to tell us about you are the constant the keeps us sane.
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Congratulations! I hope to join the ranks of the engaged when I can find a route to getting a different job (or two).
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Congrats - happy for the two of you.
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Sales are your friend!
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That is one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me :')
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I've not seen anyone say a bad word about you, EVER!
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Marriage is a wonderful institution. But who wants to live in an institution?
-Groucho Marx
Seriously, though, congratulations. Get good musicians. You'll forget the flowers, the dress, the tuxes, all that. But you'll remember the music, especially if it sucked.
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sales and it helps if your significant other doesn't have expensive taste, I should add.
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bad music is definitely a NO!
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Oh, don't worry, people have.¯\_()_/¯
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She has expensive taste. I'll be okay, the main challenge is to get employed in the country she wants to be in, or nearby.
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For the love of all that is good and holy, do not go into debt for the wedding. That is the best advice I can give. It is an absolutely horrid way to start a marriage.
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as long as you don't move to a country where there is ridiculous porn laws (reference to post we both commented on earlier) you'll do just fine.
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thanks man, I am a grad engineer so hopefully in a couple years I'll be earning a decent enough wage to be able to afford it.
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Heh, well, she thinks I should get a job in England, but I'd much rather get a job in Denmark where she wants to be (180% car tax and all).
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Sounds like a good plan. I started out in engineering but changed majors to something that makes much less money. 3 years of that and I thought I was doing OK, then I got married.
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well there's good links to Denmark in south east England it's only an hour from London Gatwick to Copenhagen from $40 in quiet periods. don't move to London though as it's expensive.
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Yeah, if I do teach in England I'll be looking at everything not London.
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the money sucks major balls right now, but I'm looking to change companies, I want to go to Ricardo (probably most famous for the gearboxes in the Veyron and Ford GT but they do much more) whose World HQ is within walking distance of my house, because it's car based which is what I studied as opposed to the special purpose machinery I'm designing at present.
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the north is cheaper but there's a reason, it's a nice place but there's not as many jobs, towns are far apart and there's something called the north-south divide in the UK, an imaginary line drawn across the UK, the south is more affluent with more career opportunities, wealth and a higher quality of life but is generally more expensive to live in. that said small districts on the outskirts of cities in the south are cheaper to live in.
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Thanks for the tips! Yeah, I've spent some time in England before but it was around 2000-ish when I was a lot younger.
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congrats!
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Congrats! I'm a little bit further down that road, just got married in September and we bought a house today actually!
Feel free to ask my aby questions about Wedding planning, its all still very fresh in my mind.
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First and foremast, congrats! But..... 23?
Holy crap dude. I saw that and it stung me, lol. Whew! I was just hitting my stride at 23. Sidenote: I got married at 30 and am now divorced, so my thoughts are irrelevant.
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Congrats! Maybe consult your (eventual) bride on how long she wants to wait to be wed, though. ;)
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I know man, I know people who have rushed into marriage even younger and it didn't work out. But in my case I have known her since birth, we got together at 16 after many years of denying to myself that I loved her, we've been on many vacations together, proved we can live together, we rarely fight. I mean I can't predict the future but I got a chance of a lasting marriage I say.
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She's understanding but not together for 14 years before the wedding understanding.
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thanks man, It's gonna at least a couple of years before we think about it. I'm in an insecure job that I'm not particularly happy doing so I need to change jobs first and build up savings whilst paying off student loans. Thankfully she respects that.
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That's the right way to go about it, I think. Best of luck, sir!
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Congratulations on your engagement. All the best to you and Ms Leon711.
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thank you sir!